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Another Epidemic: Family Gaps Widen over Sex, Tech, Trump & COVID
Published in CHRISTIAN HEADLINES... Earlier this month, in a piece for The Atlantic, Joshua Coleman described an epidemic that’s not...

Does Social Media Worsen Parental Estrangement?
One of the benefits of technology has been an increase in the means available for people to stay in touch. While families once had to...

How to talk to that family member over the holidays...
Dec 23, 2020 Remember Cousin Eddie — Randy Quaid’s lovable buffoon in National Lampoon’s Vacation series? If you’ve seen the original...

OPINION: Your Will is about more than money and cutting your child out could backfire...
December 22, 2020 I work with some of the most heartbroken people in the world: parents whose adult children want nothing to do with...

Connecting with Your Alienated Adult Children: Dr. Petra Deeter and Dr. Joshua Coleman
In this conversation, Dr. Petra Deeter talks with Josh about how to reconnect with alienated adult children.


“Don’t Get into the Rightness or Wrongness of It…Just Seek to Understand” – with Josh Coleman
"I am pleased to bring you the thinking of today’s guest, Dr. Joshua Coleman. Josh is a psychologist in private practice in the San...

All Your FAQs About Staying Safe (And Sane) This Thanksgiving
The Brian Lehrer Show: From safety concerns about travel to staving off fights about politics once you arrive, there's nothing simple...

We Aren't Family: The Adults 'Divorcing' Their Parents
More adult children are “breaking up” with their folks, in what’s being described as an epidemic of intergenerational dysfunction. And...

How to Repair a Family Rift...
Family estrangements are fundamental to the human story, starting the day that God tossed Adam and Eve from the garden. Likewise, in...

All the Things We Have to Mourn Now...
As of this writing, the coronavirus pandemic has killed more than 50,000 people in the United States and more than 200,000 people...

Therapists Break Down the Debate’s Toxic Communication Patterns
Instead of a dignified discussion of important issues, the country was subjected to what felt like a toxic, drawn-out family dispute gone...

10 Common Mistakes Therapists Make With Estranged Parents
Psychology Today, May 30, 2020 Therapists can make matters worse when counseling estranged parents. Blaming the parent. While it’s...

When Grandparents Are Estranged From Their Grandchildren
For years, Pat Hanson composed letters, hundreds of them, to a granddaughter she wasn’t permitted to see or speak to. She described her...


5 Obstacles to Self-Compassion
Of all the skills required to reclaim your life and sanity after an estrangement, self-compassion is the most key...
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