Letter of Amends Do’s and Don’ts

A good amends letter can open a door; a clumsy one can slam it shut. In this training, Dr. Coleman walks line‑by‑line through what makes estranged children say “this finally landed” versus “see, they still don’t get it.” He shows you how to take real responsibility without groveling, avoid hidden blame and explanations, and write from your child’s emotional experience instead of your defense. You’ll get concrete examples of weak vs. strong apologies and a template you can adapt to your own story.